Student Bloggers
So, You’re American…
Date
November 19, 2019
Currently Studying at: University of Aberdeen, Scotland
Homeschool: The College of Wooster
One of my big worries before going abroad was how others would perceive me as an American. Back in the Obama days of my life, I was okay with stating that I was American while abroad, and didn’t expect any sort of animosity for the declaration. However, as the United States is currently experiencing mass shootings, the presidency of Trump, and a plethora of other issues – I expected a lack of welcome from non-Americans.
This has not been the case. I think that Americans are the ones who dislike other Americans the most. Therefore, if you’d endured mistreatment from your fellow Americans, you’ll be just fine in Scotland. At this moment, I think it is important to point out that I’m only talking about nationality. I can’t speak for the experiences of people of color, people in the LGBTQIA+ community, etc. who are American – I’m merely speaking for myself as a cis white American. My experiences do not take into account actions of racism, homophobia, transphobia, etc.
Another thing I have understood better while abroad is why students from different countries often stick together when they’re abroad for school. I have found myself naturally drawn to other Americans, and have made my best friendships while abroad with fellow Americans. Perhaps it is the similar life experiences or the fact that we are all here for only a semester, but I have naturally grouped myself with them. We travel in a gaggle of American girls, sometimes too loud when we laugh or talk – but yet, people still accept us and laugh with us. We’ve had a cab driver jokingly say ‘yeehaw’ constantly throughout our cab ride. We’ve had a bartender sing Chicago by Frank Sinatra to make my friend from Chicago feel welcome.
While my experiences cannot speak for the experiences of all Americans abroad, I think as a general rule (with the good people out there), if you’re kind and respectful in a foreign country, you will be treated kindly and respectfully. American or not, it is about how you treat others.
P.S. Not entirely related buuut avocados are much better in the United States.