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The first time I felt personally drawn to the Irish was in 2012 while watching the show “New Girl.” The particular episode featured the “New Girl” gang attending several customary holiday parties together that no one really wanted to go to. Since there were multiple parties and they promised to all attend as a group, they decided to practice an abrupt exit strategy called the “Irish Exit” to get to each.

Prior to seeing this played out on television, I had never heard of an “Irish Exit.” Simply put the “Irish Exit” is a move pulled, usually at a party or social gathering, where one leaves without telling anyone. Legend has it the Irish do this because they tell long stories and this makes saying goodbye a drawn out affair.

While most social cues are easily laughable, I realized after watching the show that the “Irish Exit” is actually something I do, a lot. In fact, and with little irony, I’ve been using it for the goodbyes that come with leaving for my semester abroad in Dublin.

For example back in May when I moved out of my college dorm and home for the summer I just kind of just left campus after finals. Sayonara friends, see you in 8 months! As for friends at home, who have consequently all left again, it was the quick “Bye!” that coincides with hopping out of the car. Godspeed grade school friends, until next time! As for work and summer internships coming to a close, my exit was more of a scheduled there one day gone the next. Arrivederci unpaid internship, don’t miss whatshername too much! Farewells seem to work better with functionality first in mind sometimes—good thinking Irish!

Goodbyes aside though, I’m looking forward to my “Irish Hello!” It has been months of planning and I’m more than eager to finally begin my journey. Not only am I excited to experience some Irish social cues as I mentioned above, but I’m also thrilled to be immersed in this beautiful country.

People often ask why I chose to study in Dublin and for me the response is obvious. From what I know Ireland is a breathtakingly beautiful land, full of friendly prideful people, savory history, unique culture, and an indefinable quaintness. It feels like the perfect place to grow and explore who I am as truly an independent adult.

In addition, I am extremely grateful to have the opportunity to study at Trinity College Dublin. A sister school to Oxford and Cambridge, Trinity seems to offer educational experiences unlike any other. Walking the halls of a 423 year old institution and having the opportunity to learn through a new cultural lens is something I could never pass up.

So my quick Irish goodbyes are all a part of this whirlwind of change and excitement. With only two weeks until my departure the reality of what I’m doing is beginning to sink in. New country, new school, new culture, new friends, and most importantly a new chapter of life is about to unfold. Here’s to patience in preparation and of course a little luck!